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Sarah - 2005-02-19 21:09:08
Wow. You said that beautifully. So true. Ive felt that way many times myself (before my current relationship). You and I once talked long ago, hell, possibly when you had first came onto the Dland scene. I didnt remember your screenname until I clicked on your banner- which was brilliant. *hugs*
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Nicoli - 2005-02-19 23:24:36
But you know what, through all of the failed relationships and the broken promises, the lies and the hurt people cause you, you've got to keep your head up and keep loving. I know it sounds hypocritical coming from a pessimist like me, but I mean it. I keep loving people because while I know hardly any of them care, it feels better than if I didn't allow myself to have some semblance of closeness to anyone. And sometimes you have to take chances. I've taken a lot of chances that turned out for the worse--in fact, every time I hoped, I ended up losing. But then someone else comes along and takes you by surprise. Maybe it sounds too much like a fairy tale to you, but really, it happens. Someone trustworthy steps into the scene and before you know it, things start to work out--not everything, but most of the things that count. I guess what I'm trying to say here is that detaching yourself, though it seems the easy way to keep from getting hurt again and again, will keep you from finding that wonderful relationship you seek, because out of your lack of trust you'll end up pushing people away and maybe miss out on a huge opportunity. Eh, I dunno. Maybe I don't make any sense. I jsut wish I could help somehow; I care about you and only want the best for you. I wish you luck. ::HUGE HUGS::
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