Comments:

Earthchild44 - 2004-11-13 20:57:24
Ghost, it's completely natural for you to hold on to that ring. It wouldn't matter what it was. It obviously holds a large place deep inside you. I just hope you don't plan to give that ring to another woman some day.
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mia - 2004-11-13 22:46:07
I think you are so wonderful.. Again, I say I hope that I can one day find someone as wonderful as you are... =) blessings mia
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charming girl - 2004-11-13 23:52:39
The universal need of love, lust, and desire. Everyone goes through all the phases in it. The ring is a reminder of many things to you; Lovely reminders and very sad reminders that many bring out anger and frustration. Keep that ring but never give it away to someone else, there are a few reasons for it. It was meant for someone else and to the new person in your life that you give that to will always feel second to the memories of the first. We all carry baggage from our relationships. I read something so important to me that it will always stick with me because it's so true... "So, it seems that when any relationship turns sour, it can sometimes affect more than just the two people involved because the after-effects act like a set of dominoes. One person causes pain to another and trust gets seriously bruised. In turn, loyalty is harder to achieve the next time a relationship starts." Lady Crystal wrote it. Please know that things always change and sometimes you have go with the change. Life is meant to be a struggle, that's how we learn. If everything was handed to us this plant would be very bored and full of much more chaos. From what I read of you, you seem to be a good man, it will happen but in time. You are in my thoughts GoG.
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Pam - 2004-11-15 03:32:32
I think that you keeping the ring is just a reminder of your past. I agree with the other people and I would not give it to someone else. You always have the option to re-set the stone. I don't know if it's a diamond, but those are very expensive and re-setting it may give you a whole different look. I mean of course when you are ready. Good luck, and I hope you find her.
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berta - 2004-11-17 15:31:58
"whoever created women was a craft little fucker. The best way to ensure the continuation of humans was to get men to hopelessly want females companions." Heh, I have the pow-wah!!!! You have a pretty good Idea of what goes on in girls heads (or at least what the main points are)
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Sand - 2004-11-28 18:54:24
seems to me you got a pretty good graps of what women want. I must give u many a tumbs up for it, teach it to your fellow males, wont ya? In any case, i do believe someone (im pretty sure anyone really) would love to have a good man like you (from what you write anyway) around. Seriously, this world is so full of jerks that finding men who think like you is rather refreshing...im just saying.
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