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5:54 p.m. - 2005-06-21

I signed up for Aflac!!! at work. They had the big plush ducky, and I kept petting him. Moving right along.

I had a think about how people treat possessions or things/pets/people.

How one person can "own" something, care for it and another does not.

When you are given "command" of something, or someone it is a position of responsibility. Care, and well being of this entity you are charged with leading, or delegating to comes from within yourself. You have control to a point within this position of power. The source of the power just might have come from a peer, a leader, or the one you intend to lead.

To command, doesnt include ownership. A personal interest should be maintained so you can make a positive impact on this new post but you dont own any of it. Or anyone. They follow you with baited breath, and a certain level of suspicion. Much like in the military. Leaders can be feared, or loathed depending on the view their underlings have of them, or the faith they have for them.

Ownership, is diffrent. technically you are free to do with whoever, or whatever is your personal property. You can bury it, burn it to the ground, throw it away, or keep it in a glass case. Anyone with a pulse can "own' property. There is no intended power change there. Not in My thinking, not when there is more to it then that.

I will use Myself for the sole purpose of an example to understand and put into context.

When can I.....claim ownership of another person?

Surely there is laws preventing me from doing so by force. People are no longer sold (legally) in My country. And I cant patrol local highschools for a young girl to kidnap. Unless I want matching bracelets.

Realisticly speaking...

So many people actually believe they deserve, and qualify based on a aggressive attitude that they should own people to do their bidding. Hmmmm....

I have a problem with this line of thinking. Despite all the Gorean ideoligies I hold dear, the absolute superiority of another person isnt, and shouldnt be limited to gender, or mental brainfarts by the morons of the world.

Why would a Gorean man question the wonership of a slave by another Gorean person? When common sense goes bye-bye and they destroy what it is they own.

Welcome to planet Earth.

No one short of the mentally handicapped willingly subject themselves to physical torture, and call it ownership.

A little girl, will not allow herself to be controlled by someone with a demanding voice. Unless....

They trust you.

You give them something tangible in return.

You promise to care for them.

Trust is a given. Slavery in our world cannot be done without consent or the benifits of this lifestyle will be lost to vulgarity, and barbarism. I sincerely believe a broken slave, is a unpleasing one. I take no joy in beating a person unless they deserve it, or it is for the purpose of punishment. And there are limits to which I can go with this.

I have heard of, and met people who are for the most part wastes of skin and bone. CHild rapists. Molesters. Unable to control themselves they prey on others for selfish reasons, and never is the victim benifitted by this action.

If you seek the heavy hand, is it simply pain you seek....or to be led. To be commanded....

To be changed in such subtle ways that you as a person grows within the confines of the control you have given another. Plants can only grow in pots large enough to aloow growth. Nurtured, and cut when they grow wild they flourish when the gardener keeps them under control, and feeds them what they need to be the best they can be.

Too small a pot, there is no groth.

No food, water....nuturing they wither and die.

Too much care and they will also fail...

It is a balance. A Dominant green thumb up the ass of the girl which brings her into bloom. They fight their freedom. Sassy, outspoken and without bounds they grow all over things like a ivy plant grows over walls. Without control they can kill others, or themselves by growing too fast.

One doesnt need to abuse to allow growth.

There have been those who have chosen to kneel in front of Me. Some not really knowing what it means to kneel in front of a Gorean man. My thinking is that total ownership, belies a greater responsibility than most would give to a needy pet. A gerbil, cat or dog. It is closer to a childs needs. A great responsibility. Much too big to undertake without knowledge, and rules to follow.

Know why you kneel. Only kneel to those who can benifit from your service, and you from their teaching. I personally crave interaction, and the power exchange given to me by another. It goes beyind sexual, and despite its fetishlike roots I believe I can guide those who grant me power over them. Then again I dont take power so easily either.

Command even in the military is only given to those who have proven themselves.

Ownership if abused can lead to bad, bad things. To include death. Suffering without purpose will only satisfy one, the abuser.

More often than not they were once abused, and only seek revenge on a secret enemy. Lambs to the slaughter should you seek that kind of life.

Command is power that is given, but doesnt have to include ownership.

"All Masters are men, but not all men are Masters"

Old Gorean proverb. Any one can own something. Not everyone can make others fall into line simply by speaking. Subtle dominance is the key to making people follow you. Prove the intellectual argument. Lead by example. Punish when it is deserved. Dont balk at challenges, because there will always be challenges to overcome. DOnt quit. And never lie.

Just some simple thought, on one of My favorite subjects.

Im sure there will be more.

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